Shelly

Beautiful Shelly likes to think she’s been around long enough to develop some street smarts. She asks herself, before taking on some new challenge, if this is the “hill she wants to die on.” She chooses her battles accordingly. She is, in other words, a practical girl who also likes to have fun and who has some very defined opinions. She considers herself “opinionated” as a result, but she doesn’t see this as a liability. On the contrary, she thinks men like a woman who has opinions, and that the myth of the submissive young woman is just that.

Shelly

Age 22
Height 5’2″
Hair Brunette
Ethnicity Latina
Orientation Bi-Sexual

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“Any man can have a doormat,” she says. “And any man can treat a woman like dirt. Sure, some do. But why do you think you don’t see more men with these submissive, mousy little women just following them around and doing whatever they say? It’s because that’s actually a myth. It doesn’t happen that way. Most men don’t want a woman who they can push around and bully, any more than most women want that in a man. I mean, sure, some women will tell you they want to boss a man around, and if you let your woman push you around, she certainly will. But she isn’t happy. She’s thinking that her man is a wimp. When a woman pushes a guy around, she just gets more contempt for him, and she keeps doing it to see if he’ll fight back. And once she doesn’t like him, once she holds him in contempt, she feels resentful if he breaks out of that and sticks up for himself. That’s how a lot of marriages end. A woman spends years browbeating a guy into submission and becoming more and more contemptuous of his weakness… and then when he finally breaks out of that, she can’t take it. The dynamic has changed too much and the couple breaks up. Every man who has been submissive for most of his life who then stands up for himself will watch his unhealthy relationship break apart. It just can’t go any other way.”

That dynamic, Shelly says, is reflected in how women behave relative to it, too. “Men want women who stand up for themselves. That’s because men like variety. They like a woman who is unpredictable. A woman who never has opinions of her own is boring to all but the most self-absorbed men. Most men, they want their partner to want things so they can feel useful and valued. If your woman never wants anything, what can you possibly do for her? So a man wants a woman with strong opinions of her own. Most men don’t mind even arguing in a spirited way. They just don’t want to live with someone who is mean or nasty. They’ll gladly take up with a strong, opinionated woman, and regardless of what you’ve heard, they value strength. They just want to be respected, too.” Book Shelly for one of her fellow New Orleans escorts today!